I decided to do a series of posts about the most common questions that people have for us about our adoption. So, if you have a question or a comment (you know you are allowed to leave comments) let us know in the comment section! :)
Here are the most common questions that we get a lot:
- How much will it cost? Why??
- How long will it take? Why??
- Do you know the child that you will adopt yet?
- Will you go to Ethiopia and if so, then for how long?
- Why did you choose Ethiopia?
- Why didn't you choose to do a domestic adoption?
So, today's question that I will tackle is:
How much will the adoption cost?
This is not really a cut and dry answer but I will try my best. The estimate for an adoption with our agency for Ethiopia is roughly $26, 000. That looks like a pretty huge amount. I will give you an estimated breakdown of that total.
$2,000-$2,500 Homestudy Fees/Social Worker Expense
$6,300 US Fees and Expenses (This is the agency fee and application fee. This goes to our agency since they are directly working with our country, with our social worker here, with timely documents, with coordinating everything, etc.)
$1,000 Orphan Care Fee (this part goes directly to orphans in Ethiopia)
$6,000-$6200 Dossier Paperwork (This is all the government fees and paperwork that includes fbi fingerprinting, birth certificates, stuff like that. This also includes Authentification and Translation of the documents and International Service Fees)
$5,000 Referral Packet (This amount consists of fees that would need to be taken care of after we have been referred a child. This includes medical check-ups/testing, translation of final documents, post adoption documents and reports, and care for our child until we get a court date and can go pick them up!)
$5,500 In Country Travel/Accomodations (This is when we finally get to go pick up our child! This fee includes our flights, visas, transportation, lodging, food, etc.)
There are also other things like doctor visits for Brian and I, re-adoption for our child once they come to the United States, and any kind of extra things that just pop up during the process. I hope that gives you all a better understanding of the cost of adoption and why it costs that much. There are many factors that go into making an adoption legal and involves the governments of two countries.
Okay, one more thing. I also hope that this makes it very clear that when people adopt they are not "buying" a child. That comment is pretty offensive to the parents, birth family, and mostly the child. There are many fees involved in adoption. They are mostly to protect the child and family. They are to help you legally adopt that child as your own and bring them into your family. The fees associated are necessary to adopt, not directly "buying" a child. Okay, I will now step off the soap box. :)
Stay tuned for our next question!